Monday, February 15, 2010

Decisions, Decisions!

It was so nice to have the day off and go for a run with my friends C and Patty on such a nice day.  We met at Peet's and it took us quite a while to figure out which way we were going to go.  The story of our lives!  We finally decided to run towards the old train bridge to see if they are done working on it and if we can actually cross it (that's if no one was there to stop us).  Mainly though, we just wanted to run where we can feel the sun because it was still quite chilly.  We were able to cross it, but decided to return the way we came so that we could manage to get some more miles in.  Afterwards, we sat and had our coffees talking about the many changes we will be facing in the coming years of our lives.  The most stressful change being where to send our kids for college. Our run was almost a metaphor for our lives, many forks in the road and not knowing which is the right road to take.  I guess it didn't really matter which way we went, we would have accomplished the same objectives.  The sights would have been different and one may have been more challenging than the other, but in the end still getting a run in.

3 comments:

Patty said...

I agree that there are going to be many decisions that need to be made in my family during the next couple of years. Sometimes it gets overwhelming, just thinking about everything. I find myself looking forward to our runs when I have a lot on my mind, because just talking it over with my friends seems to lighten the load. It is so much easier to take a wrong turn in our own lives, that to watch our children make mistakes or struggle! I wonder sometimes why God gave us such a huge capacity to love our children, with no shut-off valve, when we need to step back and let them go it alone? My husband is always telling me to take a problem "off my plate". I joke with him that if I put the problem on "his plate" it just slides right off:)

marathon mom said...

I'm hoping there isn't such a thing as a "wrong" turn, only perhaps just a detour in life, but in the end I hope we all end up where we are meant to be.

Patty said...

I think that is the hard part, accepting the fact that we can't control everything. We all believe that if we just give more, love more, work harder, or just live better, then things will turn out the way we want. The thing is with children, it is not always the path that we would choose, that is path that is meant for them.